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Conflict Energy and the Resolution Processes
Intrapersonal Conflict Resolution
All inner conflict begin with an individual's perception of their past, present, and probable future, reality. Therefore, I have chosen to incorporate Intrapersonal conflict resolution as the starting point. "Conflict begins within. As we unhitch the burden of beliefs systems and heighten our perception, we love more fully and freely."(Heitler, cited in Leonard, pg.32)
When an inner conflict occurs, you have the decision to engage in, avoid, or solve the conflict. You have total control of the process. When a conflict arises in your mind, the first thing that you need to do is to ask yourself if the "goal" is important. If it is, you need to decide if the goal is important enough to put the relationship "at risk".
You have the choice to use your positive energy, or if you want to use your negative energy, or if you want to give up the goal and remain neutral. When the parties come up with their own solutions, they are more likely to abide by them. Why is this? It is because they came to the solutions themselves, they created a reality for themselves that they could live with.
One principal of Conflict resolution is that the closer the dispute is resolve to the time it occurred, you will have the least cost in stress, time (obviously) and money. Think of the possibility of all conflicts being solved the instant that they occur! "In the Holy Instant, where the Great Rays replace the body in awareness, the recognition of relationships without limits is given to you."(ACIM pg300)
You may cause violence toward yourself by not pursuing your own needs. There is a balance to avoiding conflicts. You need to respect yourself, and meet your own needs.
This communication is the closest to 100% perfect coherency. At one hundred percent perfect coherency, there would only be thoughts of love, and nothing would be thought of as a conflict, only as an opportunity to grow.
1. Channel\Speed: This is the fastest communication known, closest to 100% speed of thought, or nearest to the time of occurrence of the thought. Your mind can communicate with itself faster then any super computer.
2. Encode\Understandability: You are both the encoder and decoder of the message to yourself, so it should be 100% understandable.
3. Decode\Acceptability: You can choose to view a conflict differently. As soon as you feel a conflict arising, you can decide to choose peace. You have the responsibility for, and control, over your actions.
4. Message\Importance: If you encode a message to yourself that "your deepest underlying interest is peace", then you wouldn't perceive the situation as being a conflict. The message is 100% important if you listen to and trust your higher self rather than your ego.
When viewing the reciprocal of the equation, you can see how the amount of energy spent on solving the problem would be graphed over time. The closer you solve the conflict to the time it's occurrence, the least amount of energy needs to be spent in time, money, and stress.
